Sexy vs. Trashy

There is a fine line between sexy and trashy.

Alex and I were having this conversation last night and I thought he brought up a good point. Some girls try so hard to look sexy to attract guys... they just come off as trashy. And you know, you have to just feel bad for them... because they obviously have no self esteem and think if they act a certain way guys will want them. But in all reality, most decent guys wouldn't touch them with a 20 foot pole... in Michael & Alex's terms.

Then again, I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt. Maybe girls like that really just don't care about getting a steady boyfriend or getting married. If so, then it doesn't really matter if they act that way.

But seriously, come on... if you sleep with every guy you meet on the first date... he is never going to be a serious boyfriend. Because, in his mind, he'll know you've probably done the same thing with other guys... and guys just don't like that... not for the girls they marry.

You don't have to believe me if you don't want... but according to the guys I know, that's how it is. You may be a "good time" but you'll never be the girl they take home to meet the parents.

It's sad, it really is... that some people have no self esteem and live that way. And if you do, for the love of GOD, why would you ever brag about it? It makes you look like trash, which is not cute.

I know I would never associate myself with people like that. If I honestly thought they weren't just confused.

FYI - this is to no one in particular, and it's purely a personal belief that I've always thought. It just happened to come up again last night and I figured I'd blog about it